I have been troubled lately by hearing stories of other parents whose children have died before them. It’s really a parent’s worst nightmare. It happened to a woman I know just yesterday and I was very shocked as her daughter was only 17 years old and in good health. What comfort can you give parents who have lost a child? When they ask “Why me?” or “Why my child,” what do you say? What can you tell us about death and the hereafter? I would really like to know.

What comes after we die?
YEOSHUA:
I have much to say on this topic and there is much to be learned and understood about this. Death is a transformation and not something to be feared. It has been misunderstood for thousands of years. There is no fear to be held in this world as far as death goes. We are only sad because we miss this person in their physical form but these loved ones who pass over are simply moving on to their next experience as a soul. That is all it is. Moving on from one experience to another. We, still here on Earth, need to have this human experience. We have not fulfilled our roles here on this planet yet. Those who have passed on have made a choice, a decision that their time here is complete. We each have several times during our lives when we can make this choice for ourselves. We have obviously chosen to stay here, as we did not feel like it was our time yet. This is the first concept to understand.
As parents, many feel that it is their responsibility to care for and protect their children from harm. This is not always in our control to do so. It may simply come time for our children to continue on to their next experience regardless of where we want them to be. They are held in perfect love and light as they move from this world to the next so there is no need for fear about where they are and what they are experiencing. There are others, loved ones they know, who will be there to greet them and show them how to have their next experience. I will not go into great detail about that type of experience as you will need to feel what that is like first hand. There are almost no words to describe it.
Children choose their families before they come to this earthly existence. There are so many factors involved. There are things they want to learn or experience here on earth—maybe that is sickness, maybe that is family dynamics, maybe that is not for you to ever know. Maybe our children choose to be here as role models to their parents or to teach their parents a life lesson and then it is their time to leave. Maybe in the leaving they have taught their parents the life lesson they needed to know. So, it might be viewed that their death was the trigger of a transformation of the parent that never would have taken place otherwise. It is not for you to judge when a soul leaves this planet as to whether it is good or bad or tragic. It simply is.

Everything is unfolding just as it should...
Everything is unfolding exactly as it should in the universe. Acceptance of this principle will help comfort those who grieve and move through the sadness more quickly. Your loved ones who have passed over are always here with you but they exist on a different level or world or dimension. You may interact or communicate with them and you know when they are truly with you. You may feel like calling out to them or feel a breeze on your face or a touch on your shoulder. Do not dismiss this. It is how they let you know they are still with you. Do not doubt this. Feel it–experience them with you. This is how they help you heal and work through your grief. Death is much harder on those left behind but it doesn’t have to be.
Let go and believe that everything has a reason for occurring. There is a divine plan in place for your highest good and to help you in reaching your highest potential. Have faith in this belief and you will find yourself able to move out of grief and back into living with gusto. Shame, guilt, worry, and anxiety may be acceptable in your culture when dealing with death but I ask you to love and laugh, and rejoice in what these dear ones have brought to your life. Celebrate their life by living yours to the fullest. This is the best way to honor them. God bless you. -Yeoshua
MARY MAGDALENE:
A mother who loses her child is almost inconsolable. It is so ingrained in our DNA that we must protect our young that when one is lost, we feel as if we have failed. I am here to say that you have not failed—not in any way, shape, or form. Your love has held them in the space where they needed to be. There is a divine plan in place that even a mother’s love cannot sway. Love your children every day. Appreciate who they are and who they are becoming. Hug them and tell them you love them no matter what they do or say. Love them unconditionally. Never miss a chance to do this.

Never miss a chance to give a hug or a kiss...
Then, if one day, it is time for your child to move on to their next experience, as Yeoshua explains, let them go. Others who love them and have cared for them in the spirit world will carry them with love and guidance to where they need to go next. There is no need for you to worry about them. They are safe and actually worry more about you and your struggle with them being gone. Celebrate their lives—laugh about things they would have found funny, remember fond memories of your times together, shed a tear if you need to, reach out to them in the spirit world and let them know you are thinking of them. Let yourself feel your way through your grief. This will allow the emotions to flow over you like a stream with its water flowing over the rocks. If you don’t let the emotions flow, they will be stuck and the stream won’t flow and let you move on to where you need to be. We all need to flow in life. Grief, guilt, shame, and worry are feelings that keep you stuck.
Sadness when released is a positive emotion. Let the sadness flow over you and miss the child that has passed over. Then try to move on to whatever you have to do next in your life. That is what your child would have wanted for you. They do not feel bad if you don’t remember them every second of every day. They want you to be happy and fulfilled in your life. They would never have left if they thought you couldn’t move on. There was a reason why they were here and a reason why they needed to go. Be open to finding these answers, as they are a part of your healing and a part of your life path.

Let the emotions flow over you...
My heart goes out to all parents who have lost a child. There is no easy path through the grief and sadness incurred by such an event. Know that you are loved and held in light and love during this time. Reach out to those who can help you through such a difficult time. Use your heart to guide you to those who may have answers for you. This is not a time to struggle through alone. If you are near those who have experienced this first hand, be there for these parents. We are all one — so a grief or a sadness of one parent, is felt by other parents. We all share in these emotions so coming together and supporting one another is the only way to healing for all of us. Thank you for listening. Love and light to all of you on your journey. Namasté, Mary Magadalene.
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This post is dedicated in memorium to Sara.
May she rest in peace and fly with the angels.
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10 Comments
Incredible insight!!! I had no idea this website was here or even existed. Thank you for imparting and sharing Jeshua’s teachings…
Thelma
Thanks Thelma. Enjoy the site!
hugs,
Melinda
Thanks for sharing this, Melinda.
Thank-you Melinda. Thank-you Yoeshua and Mary Magdalene for this conforting and enlightening message for all of us. I feel blessed in consciousness and in love. Thank-you Rebecca for Sara and for your love to Sara. Meeting you and Sharman and Sara in our trip is a blessing now augmented by her journing to higher Realm. She and all of you and your love are part of our life now and of the growth of love and consciousness on our parts. We gratefully accompany her in her Light transition.
Love, Peace, Joy. Namaste
Pilar
You are welcome. Thanks for visiting Pat and Pilar!
Thanks for the conforting message yeoshua.
Wonderful words of wisdom Melanie. Thanks so much for sharing.
You are welcome, Katie and Iona.
Profound and comforting words. May Sarah be held in love and peace and her transition be easy and rewarding. This has helped me to understand better the transition that we will all experience. Thank you, Melinda.
Thanks for commenting, Jeanne. I’m glad you found it helpful! ;>)